I'm a 17 year old girl and living in a state that is as hot as Florida, doesn't help much with my situation. Like most of you here, I suffer from sweaty hands and feet. Occasionally, my armpits will begin to sweat but it's only because I'm thinking so much about my hands sweating that I can't help it.
Ever since I was in seventh grade, I have noticed my hands sweat. I confronted my parents about it, but they just simply say "it's the nerves" and it will "go away". One could only dream it would. When they first started, I figured that everyone had to deal with it and that it was completely normal, but once I got into high school I began to see an increase.
High school is a stressful time of your life, but it can be even more stressful for people like us. People with sweaty hands, feet, armpits, heads, and beyond. For us, note taking is one of the most horrible things a teacher can present to us, as it will only result in a very sloppy copy of the information to avoid our hands sitting on the paper to create wet spots, our pencil to slip out of our hands continuously and our neighbor to notice the paper keeps sticking to the side of our hand. I know I dread it. Because I have to go through it every day.
Being the age that I am, I have been wanting to look for a job, wanting to get an advancement in my future career. But alas, I decide to pull away from the outside world and stay huddled in my home (which seems to be the only area I can remain in without my hands sweating.) instead of going out to fill out job applications. I'm afraid that if I do get the job, not only will I have to go through an interview with my employer, but I will also have to worry about actually doing the job and people noticing.
Of course, we really shouldn't care much about what people think of us. If they don't like us because we have sweaty hands, they apparently have bad character because they don't even bother to begin to know us from our personalities. They instead think "Ew" and leave us alone.
But surprisingly to you all, nobody really notices the problem. Usually when you're at school or work, everyone is so absorbed into their own thing they don't pay the slightest of attention to you. Even less, your hands. But even though all that is said and done, the thought is still going to linger in your mind, which will cause your hands to remain sweating.
I have tried many different ways to stop my sweating problem, and surprisingly enough it is the simplest of them all that has made the biggest impact. Don't believe the "urinate on your palms" technique. Does it work? Maybe it does, maybe it doesn't. I haven't been able to bring myself to do it myself. But by all means you can go for it an post if it works. But don't expect me to jump on the band wagon. I have experienced a few techniques that have definitely lessened the fact my hands sweat, but they don't deplete it from my mind entirely. It seems like a lot of you need these answers, so I shall present them to you.
Deep Breaths.
I know this sounds lame and some of you are thinking, "What does breathing have to do with sweating?!" But it has to do with everything. Whether you're completely comfortable in the environment, you are reading a book, or taking notes... one thing I have noticed that helps keep the sweating down is breathing. I don't mean regular breathing though, I mean deep breaths.
Of course I do not mean breaths so deep people are thinking you are about to dive into an invisible pool in the middle of the classroom, but I mean just strong, slow breaths. Ones that will help ease your mind and take your thoughts off of your sweaty hands for just a moment. Sweaty hands attacking you while you are taking notes? Sit down your pencil, quietly. If you want to slam it down, by all means do so, but I can guarantee you someone will stop and stare at you like you are crazy and it will only draw attention to yourself.
After sitting your pencil down, glance around the room or wherever you are. Read a poster on the wall, try to count how many redheads or blondes are in your class. Just something to help take the thought of "omg why they stop sweating" off your mind. As you do this, take deep, strong breaths. Let your body relax as you do this too. Relaxation and breathing are key to calming yourself down, and relaxing so that you are comfortable in the environment.
Don't believe breathing works? It did for me today in my Algebra 2 class. We were taking the biggest test of the year, and though I was not nervous at all about it as I knew my material, my hands were sweating profusely and I could barely keep the pencil in my hand. Has anyone ever tried to use a calculator when your hands are sweating?
Your mind becomes so overwhelmed with consciousness that someone's going to notice that glisten of sweat that lays on the side of your finger as you tap in the keys and it only seems to make the situation worse. I seriously wanted to just smash my calculator up to my chest and tap away in secrecy, where I was sure that no one would see. I could barely write the answers down and trying to work the half-page problems out on scrap paper was even worse. The second my hand laid on the paper, if I pulled up I would find splotches of wetness where it had previously been. But eventually I could not take it anymore. I sat down my paper and pencil and pushed my calculator aside. I closed my eyes and took about ten evenly deep breaths and thought about something other than school. And what do you know? I finished the remaining twenty questions in a breeze without leaking faucets coming out of my palms, but rather a light, cold sweat that seemed to not bother me at all.
Try it yourself, you'll see that it works. Most people who suffer from sweaty hands and the like notice an increase in the sweat when they start thinking about their hands sweating while they are doing something. You are afraid that it's going to get worse, so you start thinking about bad situations that may happen, or how you aren't going to finish your paper because you are smudging everything. Majority of your body will end up tensing up at these negative thoughts, resulting in your body's hormones reacting and releasing the sweat to help cool and calm the body.
Get in depth with conversation.
As I said before, majority of the major sweating or increase of sweating is because the mind wanders away with negative thoughts about it all. Try to get yourself into a conversation that people are partaking it, that way your thoughts will eventually roam away from your hands and they will be engrossed in the conversation as you take in everything everyone says. Distractions always help when it comes to reducing your sweaty hands.
Long Sleeves.
You may be thinking, "Don't long sleeve's end up heating you up more instead of stopping the sweat?" Well the answer is partially true, but did you think about the cotton fibers in your clothing that will help hide away and reduce your sweat? When you wear long sleeves or a jacket, your sweat has somewhere to go. It absorbs into your sleeves instead of lingering there on your hand, piling up until it looks like you dipped your hand into a bucket of water and didn't bother to dry them off. Of course, when you do this, you have to know how to do it right.
Don't go layering five long sleeve shirts under a thick sleeved jacket thinking it will absorb everything. Of course, it will... but it will also increase your body temperature as the day progresses, causing you to sweat even more under all those layers of clothing. You'll find yourself shedding off the shirts one by one throughout the day until you eventually are sitting shirtless in the middle of nowhere.
I see that it is the greatest help because it sort of "hides" your hands, and they aren't laying down on the desk for all the world to see. If you want to try this tidbit of information. here's how you'd do it.
Try finding a relatively thin jacket, one that will look like you are just trying to protect yourself from a small chill. Not one that hides your entire body and makes you look like an Eskimo ready for a blizzard. If you find a thin jacket, try finding a light or thin shirt to wear under it. I have experienced that if you wear a thick shirt and semi-thick jacket, you'll find yourself hot and wanting to strip it off. But in the back of your head your mind will be screaming "NO!" because that means there will be a chance that someone will see your hands. Of course, if it does come to the point where you need to take it off, sit it in your lap or tie it around your waist for easy access. Don't throw it on the floor where you won't be able to reach it again.
I have found that by laying my jacket in my lap I kind of develop a comforting feel. And not to forget to mention that if you hands start sweating, you can easily just rest them in your lap and hide them in your jacket. Try to pretend like you are neatly folding your jacket or adjusting it from a comfortable position, that way it looks as if you are fixing something when you are really just wiping off your hands so you can continue on with that nasty essay that's due at the end of the period.
Socks.
For those of you who have sweaty feet, and sweaty hands in some cases, you may have noticed that wherever you sit them they just won't seem to stop. You try to put them in the direction of a draft or a breeze, and yet the cold air only makes them worse because not only is it chilling your feet to the bone because of the sweat that is now freezing on your skin, but also your body will send more blood to that area in order to heat them. And everyone knows that where the is heat, there is sweat. At least in our cases.
One way I have found that has helped erase sweaty feet from my mind is socks. I love socks. I can't tell you what I would ever do without my socks. Many times I forget that I am even wearing them and the material soaks up any sweat your feet give off, and I can't tell you how great of a relief it is.
Before I found out about this obvious option in cutting down my sweaty feet, my feet used to drip sweat like a running faucet. I dreaded going to dances because I was forced to wear heels, not to mention I'm a lousy dancer. By now although, I am thankful the ballerina flat fad has come of age because they are all I wear now when I have to dress up nicely. But along with the socks, wear closed shoes.
If you have sweaty feet, for the love of all things holy don't wear open shoes such as heels or flip flops. They are only going to make your life a living nightmare because they are exposed for everyone to see. In eighth grade, I decided to wear flip flops to school and let me tell you. I don't think my feet stopped kicking because I needed that breeze on my feet so badly. Anyone who looked at me probably saw them as a blur because they were kicking so fast. But I tell you what, I never wore them again. Those shoes are hidden away in some crevice so far out of my sight in my closet that spiders and the like are probably devouring them as some type of food source as we speak.
Drink plenty of water.
You may think that drinking lots of water would cause your body to sweat more, as there may be excess water and your body needs someway to get rid of it other than the obvious fifteen trips to the bathroom to "relieve" yourself. Though in my eyes, I believe it helps tremendously. Not only does it cool down your body a bit when your nerves are acting up and over heating your body, but it also gives your hands something to play with. You can secretly wipe away any sweat on that wrapper that is around the plastic bottle and holding it can also cool down your hands if the water is cold.
Another use with the bottle I have found is placing it on your wrist. This may look silly to some people watching you, but I'm sure they'd rather see you playing with a bottle than fidgeting in your chair because your sweaty hands are making you scream throughout your head. If you place an edge or side of the cold water bottle against your wrists, maybe pretend like you are rolling it on your desk while listening to someone lecture or the like, you will instantly feel a relief and cut in the amount of sweat from your hands. The coldness helps, in a way, cool off the blood traveling through your veins that are exposed to your skin, along with your nerves. It helps relax you. And if you put it in with other techniques such as the deep breathing listed above, it can help even more.
Talk about it.
This may seem like the craziest, most reckless, and hardest part of suggestions, but I have to admit it works. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and he knows everything about me, even my sweaty hands. Of course it was incredibly hard to tell him about it and I told him around two in the morning, but I felt so much relief after I said so and believe it or not... my hands never sweat when I'm around him.
Why you ask? It's because I've become comfortable. I can be relaxed and open with him now, instead of tense and shy away from every move he makes towards me because my mind is too occupied in thinking about the sweaty palms and pits hidden under my seven layers of clothes. And he accepts me for it all.
My boyfriend has taught me that no one is perfect, no matter how much everyone would like to believe. He has made me realize that everyone has their little quirks that are different from each other. And mine just happens to be sweaty hands. It could be a lot worse, couldn't it?
But other than my personal life, sit down. Talk to your parents, your best friends, your significant other and any one who is close to you as well. I'm not telling you to go around the world wearing a shirt that reads "I have sweaty hands!" but expressing your feelings and what's going on with your body to people who you care for and know care for you will reduce the stress insanely.
I was always tense when it came to my parents and friends about my sweaty hands and feet, and I was planning on telling them about it (and chickened out several times). But one day, I became so fed up with my sweating problem that I sat down with them and just blurted it out. Halfway into the conversation I then noticed what I had said and how I got there, and it immediately spread relief through my body.
It isn't going to be easy, I can tell you that right now. Working up the nerves to even say something will be hard enough. And obviously you're going to have thoughts in your head that revolve around, "What if I tell them... and they completely isolate me from them forever? What if I lose my best friend because they think it's 'icky'?" Well I can tell you right now what everyone else would say, that's for a fact... If anyone decides to not have anything to do with you because you have sweaty hands, they are NOT worth the time.
I can guarantee if you tell your best friend about your "problem", they will accept you in every way and more. Not only that but it will also build a stronger bond on your relationship because he/she understands that it is something you can barely speak about to your parents and you are sharing it with them.
I also guarantee that you will feel much more comfortable around the people you tell as I have. I'm completely comfortable around my parents, close friends, and my boyfriend because they know of this. I feel that I do not need to hide anything from them anymore and that they accept me for who I am.
Sweaty hands included.
So if you are suffering from these conditions, the least I can say is don't let it run your life. For a while it has run mine, but I am finally putting a stop to it. I will not let my sweaty hands and feet control what type of career I achieve, whose hand I hold or shake, and if anyone has a problem with it, let them have that problem!
It's part of what makes you, YOU. And no one can tell you otherwise. And always remember, you are NOT alone. Many people suffer from sweaty hands and feet. It's only up to you if you are going to let it control you, or you control it.
I wish the best of luck to all of you on stopping your sweaty hands. There are many other ways you can stop your hands from sweating out there and I encourage you to search for them as well.
I hope I could have been of some assistance to you all.