Response to post 54. I know very well exactly the amount of pain you are experiencing! You sound like me for over two years now, and my injuries were also from an auto accident at about 40 mph, though I was hit on the front right of my car when the other car crossed the line and my path coming from the other direction.
The other car spun around 180 degrees as we impacted at their rear passenger quadrant. If it had been a direct head on hit, we'd all be dead.
Look, you need a good accident lawyer who will help you get MRIs on your entire cervical and lumbar spine, your shoulders and anywhere else that hurts because it sounds like you have similar injuries to mine.
I have very serious injuries. My left ankle is still messed up with swollen Achilles tendon and the tendons that follow along each side injured so I have to wear a brace for months. My right shoulder has torn rotator cuff, two muscles and multiple tendons are injured, plus torn bicep so I have multiple muscle knots all over my upper right arm, upper back and shoulder. The shoulder injury is called Impingement Syndrome.
The worst injuries are a herniated compressed disk at L5-S1 with compressed nerve root (pinched nerve). Then I have three herniated compressed disks in my neck at C4-5, C5-6, and C6-7 with compressed nerve roots.
That pressure caused me multiple chronic spasms in my neck and shoulder and down my back, especially next to my spine and across my shoulder blade on my right side. In fact, the physical therapist said I had my entire upper back in chronic unrelenting clinched spasms and it took 12 treatments to get most of them to relax enough so I wasn't about to scream every minute from the intensity of the pain.
I cannot emphasize strongly enough that you need MRIs over your entire spine and especially up in your neck, possibly shoulder/s and any other place that hurts chronically. Then you need a good neurosurgeon (the lawyer should help you get the best) and an orthopedist.
I am facing multiple surgeries, starting with a partially frozen shoulder.
I did find some relief for the muscle spasms in my upper back with ultrasound, massage and stretching exercises from a good physical therapist. I was in total agony for months until then and I went three times a week for four weeks.
They couldn't do ultrasound on my neck as it was too close to the carotid artery, but massage and acupressure did help to give me some relief from the huge knot I had in the side of my neck that protruded over an inch and could be seen without turning my neck to the left it was so bad.
I still have it, but it's much smaller now so if I turn my head to the left and move my hair, you can still see it on the right side.
Every time the weather is changing, especially when it is about to rain, I know days in advance and I don't watch weather or local news reports. I am infallible about predicting rain and I suffer something awful. My injuries are all soft tissue.
In addition, from the upper back injuries, I now have Fibromyalgia that I never had before the accident. At the Mayo Clinic website, I learned an upper back injury to the nerves probably caused me to develop this from months of unrelenting pain (creating hyper sensitive nerves in my upper back and neck) so I have to take expensive medication twice every day.
I don't know if you had a good doctor check you out, but it does sound to me like you need at least one and probably several, sooner rather than later.
My great GP doctor was a little dismissive about the pain I was in, calling it soft tissue injuries that would take a long time to heal. The truth is I should have had MRI right away, but Medicare wouuldn't pay for it.
Now that I found a lawyer, literally five days before my statue of limitations expired, and he arranged for payment of the MRI, Medicare has to pay for treatment until the insurance company for the other driver can be forced to pay.
I am always in pain, but it varies by degrees. On a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being the least and 10 being the most, I range from 2-3 up to 8. I equate the pain to being similar to labor from childbirth on a bad day.
And before everyone starts thinking I set out to make money, I waited for a year and eight months before I contacted a lawyer, then he disappeared for months. I couldn't find him to fire him and no other lawyer would even talk to me while I had a lawyer hired.
I was lucky to find one by posting on a legal website. My lawyer is young, but he's been doing this for two years and literally filed the suit to protect my statue of limitations one hour before the courthouse closed and the statue expired.
I am the least litigious person around and lived in agony all this time. It has now been 27 months and I'm about to have my first surgery (non-invasive) to release my partially frozen shoulder with follow up physical therapy, ultrasound and massage.
I know quite a bit about medicine for a lay person and I know better than to see a chiropractor when you may have spine or neck injuries because the insurance doesn't want to pay for proper expensive tests and treatment to fix you.
If I had gone to one with the seriousness of my injuries, well I shudder to think what might have happened. I could be paralyzed and possibly forced to live on a respirator the rest of a greatly shortened life.
I am not meaning to sound like I am on a soapbox, but it really sounds like you have serious injuries that go way beyond muscle knots. Please get good medical help and a good lawyer.
Don't wait and be foolish like I was. I wish I'd immediately gone straight to a top law firm that specializes in auto accidents, though I lucked out finding this young lawyer. And don't hire them unless they have a good track record and are willing to go to trial instead of just settling.
I suffer from lifelong injuries with pain for the rest of my life. We're just hoping the degree with be lessened with surgery, but I will never be the same. This is considered a genuine whiplash and shouldn't be dismissed when people are in pain and say they have it.
Thanks and good luck.