Preface: I believe there may be a myriad of underlying issues, although many experience similar or the same symptoms. That being said, I suffered for 2.5 to three years with very few normal days (from age 25-28 and I’m male). I think five days or less during that period were “normal”. My symptoms included brain fog, as well as a perpetual headache on the sides of my head above the ear (worse at times than others). My short term memory was shot and recall was gone (recalling things I normally remembered with no effort, e.g., people’s names, facts, stories, daily activities). My vocabulary was very limited. I couldn’t formulate sentences to express ideas, feelings or concepts. Listening to people talk was pointless. I couldn’t process it, much less remember it. My stellar math and problem solving abilities went bye-bye. And my working memory (ability to analyze multiple pieces of info simultaneously and process through them together instead of one by one or linearly) was gone. My visual memory was also gone. I was literally a shadow of myself. You can imagine the side effects of such symptoms: apathy, irritability, disconnectedness (emotionally, socially, etc.), general anger, misunderstood and alone.
I noticed some common themes after reading everyone’s posts that applied to me as well. Lack of desire to go to a doc (understandable, I went once -- no help) as they will usually do tests and/or give drugs. The root lies, I believe, in things docs are not trained in and don’t care about such as diet, sleep, emotional well being, and balance in general (i.e., work/life balance and healthy relationships). I am not saying just sleep more, or doctors are bad, or get out of a particular relationship and quit your job. I was in a highly stressful marriage and job most of this time and came out the other end of this with my marriage intact, employed and ready to move forward. And, in fact, I believe most people are like me (I’m not special) in that when we feel normal, we are up to the challenge of stressful things like relationships and hard work or jobs and even look forward to the challenge. The problem is when we feel like garbage, we have no desire or ability to cope with these things that we would normally eagerly pursue.
The key is keeping that momentum, moving forward and through things so the never ending traffic jam (brain fog) and these other symptoms don’t set in, especially for extended periods of time. So, keep reading.
More themes I’ve noticed: throwing the kitchen sink at the symptoms, like wracking your brain and trying everything (I did this as well): vitamins, naturopathy, relaxing techniques, yoga, breathing techniques, exercise, eliminating tons of different foods from diet, massage, trigger point therapy and on and on. For me, it’s gut related. Many things, including stress and some trigger foods like excessive dairy or grains, sweets and fried foods among others, affect your gut and digestion. or lack of digestion, a.k.a. indigestion. This gets the ball rolling and all the other things exacerbate it and perpetuate it. Worry, more stress, poor decisions, poor eating, bloating, gas, and more indigestion, constantly feeling full.
Lots of folks are in difficult or new stages of life, like their early teens, are just starting work out of college, starting college or middle aged. These stresses and anxiety cause your stomach to slow or even halt digestion and also affects the production of hormones such as cortisol (more cortisol, more stress and weight gain, then more indigestion). Getting my stomach empty is what worked and then small meals, no more over eating. It sounds gross, but I threw up one day (made myself do it as a test) because I knew it was related to my stomach. I was always belching and my stomach was always acidic and it never just went away. I’ve felt great ever since. The bloating went down immediately and my head cleared up. I lost three pounds in a day or two. When I threw, up it was not food, just a very small amount of acidic juices, literally a couple ounces.
However, the solution and my recommendation is not throwing up. I knew it would work for me because previously, fasting for two or three days normalized me, as well or other times when I would just eat less for whatever reason. I want to encourage you because I know that when you’re in the midst of it all, you’re not yourself and you’re scrambling to get back to normal, which is understandable. The problem is, you don’t have to do that and it’s usually counter productive (more stress or worry). We all know deep down that nothing is wrong for the vast majority of us. And when I say that, I mean it’s not a freak disease or something that will kill you.
Most of us have or had the symptoms for years and years. Sure, some people may have a serious underlying illness, but the vast majority are fighting a psychologically and emotionally draining battle with their gut. Check out the “brain gut connection” and/or Dr. Mark Hyman for more info. He battled with the same symptoms as a doc. These are extreme solutions, but will most likely cure it and most important, prevent relapse because there are many foods, stressors and other issues that can cause the onset of brain fog, etc. There’s not one thing that causes it or one thing that fixes it, so quit racking your brain. Tune into yourself and take deliberate steps to fix it and most important, don’t give up mentally. Push forward. Get excited that you’re one day closer to feeling normal again and again stay with it.
The alternative route is becoming a victim to it and feeling defeated, which is counterproductive. It’s just your broken brain wanting to give up in hopes that someone or something will notice our desperate situation and fix it. I know it’s tough, but make one promise over and over again that you will see it through to a cure and your mind will get on board with it and help you as it’s designed to, instead of working against you.
I hope this makes sense. What would be the point in giving up or feeling hopeless or beyond help? You’ll only stay the same. My advice: if you have read this far, look into fasting, water only, for a certain period. Two-day and three-day fasts have good benefits. For example, a three-day fast can completely empty your stomach and replenish your intestinal bacteria. Perhaps shorter or longer.