Wake up people! I did six years ago. A little over a year ago I lost my dad to cancer that started in the lung with a tumor. He went through the radiation and chemo. the tumor shrank considerably and we were looking at the option of dissolving it with further medicine, finally a ray of hope! But soon he was admitted to the hospital again because of his white cell count wasn't right. More tests -- oh my God -- the little cancer that was left from all the chemo and radiation treatments had spread through the blood to his brain! The brain leasions caused him to freak out and revert back to his childhood, causing him to flail his arms around like he was fighting someone. I never saw my dad like that ever! They had to sedate him and the final treatment only to make him comfortable for the last month of his life was another round of radiation to "make him comfortable" one last time. We brought him home to die two weeks later. He smoked for almost 60 years! He could not stop, even if he had, the damage was already done, so please, please: those of you that think you're all hot and all that, nothing can harm or hurt you, I hope reality hits you one day when you lose a relative or dear friend to this wasteful nonsensical habit because that's all it is. I no longer have my dad because of this!. My mother and I had the brains enough to quit and we are no longer shaving years and precious time with friends and family off our lives anymore. life is very, very precious. Think of what your family means to you, and your friends, if anything. think of what you mean to them! I just think it's really retarted to waste $5,6,7 in some places to make yourself stink like an ashtray and smell up your house or car and clothes and pollute your body and the air around you that others have to breathe just to get a buzz from a cigarette. Get a real life -- and when you do that you don't need anything but life and those around you that you love and love you to give you a natural high! Think of all the cool stuff you could have if you didn't 'burn up' your money on silly cigarettes. You could save up for a trip, a vacation, a car, anything that you enjoy, unless you like to line the pockets of those that own the cigarette companies! They don't care anything about your health, they don't give a hoot about you at all. All they care about is sucking you into spending your hard earned income on making you 'stink' like an ashtray and making you broke. The 'glamor days' of smoking are way far away in the past. I just hope you don't have to go through the pain of losing a loved one, family or friend to this idiocity. Smoking is retarded! No. 1: it sucks money out of your purse or wallet that you might as well just set on fire anyway and watch it burn away and watch the ashes blow into the wind. No. 2: More and more people are 'waking up' and quitting than ever before. No. 3: Smoking is being banned from just about every public establishment out there practically. No. 4: Smoking is not 'vogue' anymore, it is not glamorous or sexy at all. it is gross, stinky, unhealthy and a waste of time and money, and it lowers the resistance of your children for those of you that have precious children that are gifts given to you and your spouse by God to care for and raise up that have been entrusted to your care have no choice but to breathe the 'polluted air' in your home! or car! shame on you! did you know that smoking also weakens the immune system? proven fact! people that smoke get sicker more often than those that don't smoke! thus more doctor bills. the damage just keeps piling up! the smoke actually burns away the cilia, the tiny hairlike things in your airway that are there to naturally 'sweep away' foreign particles from entering your lungs but forget about that you have burned them all away and killed them when you started smoking! oh they will grow back if given half a chance if you ever decide to quit. Within 10 or 15 minutes of your last cigarette your body immediately starts to repair itself of the damage you have done to yourself, and the helpless others in your family! Just think of all extra minutes you could have during the day to get other things done that you don't because you have to have a 'cigarette break' The only thing you're breaking is your wallet! and this is all coming from an ex-smoker (me). watch out for us. We’re all out there! One day you may wake up, (or not?) when you start having breathing problems or develop bronchitis, emphysema, or yes even cancer. these potentially smoking related diseases don’t care who they affect, and most of the time people don't know something’s wrong with them before its too late, like my dad, God rest his humble soul. smoking excites the nerves and then deadens the nerves that’s why you can't feel it if something is wrong -- or if you do it may even too late to reverse the damage! I had a sore throat for several days when I quit smoking. Gee I wonder why? I was practically burning my throat and airway with every puff I ever took on a cigarette and you are too, except you can't feel it because the smoke acts as a 'anesthetic' or nerve deadening agent. every time you take a 'hit' you burn your throat again and again but you can't feel it 'burning' because every time you do you deaden the nerves that would tell you its burning, over and over and over again every time you light up! So go ahead, think you're so smart and cigarettes are good for you --not! how would you like me to come around with a vacuum cleaner and suck 5 or 6 bucks out of your walled or purse every time you need a pack? that’s really smart isn't it? I think the cigarettes have already eaten away some brain cells because that sounds pretty retarded if you ask me. well you didn't ask me but I'm telling you anyway. Ha! Ha! But it’s your life, it’s your money, it’s your car, your house, your kids (poor kids!). think of how many people could be helped or saved around the world by everyone that smokes if they quit and spent the same amount of money on a pack(s) of cigarettes every day and channeled that money into charity. How much faster new treatments or cures for different diseases could be found! or people brought from pure poverty to a level of standard of living much more higher than so many in your neighborhood or around the world! we could wipe out homelessness! If everyone that smoked today quit, think of the money saved from buying cigarettes that could go to the homeless people! To build houses! Apartments! We could get them off the streets and provide rehabilitation for them, send them to school, train them to be respectable, upstanding, productive, citizens of this great country. Think of that the next time you light up -- the money you are burning away that could go towards the health and well being of your 'neighbor. ' Think of that the next time you pass a homeless person and think to yourself, “How sad. I wish I could do something to help them. ” You can and you just don't know it! instead of sticking another cancer stick or 'coffin nail' (my grandmother called them that) and that’s exactly what they are --coffin nails. every time you light up its like you are driving in another nail in your coffin. you're getting it built and all ready for you to lie in when your time is up! This is not a time to be a dummy, unless you want to be one. Instead of lighting up another smoke or buying that next pack that you 'need' -- you don't need it, your body just tells your brain that you 'need' it -- why not just take something out of a toilet and stick it in your mouth for a while and suck on that? I don't know what’s grosser: doing that or sticking a cigarette in your mouth the next time you see a homeless person or one of those commercials like save the children which I am a proud sponsor of a little boy now, think about the money you are 'wasting' every time you go to the drug or party store or gas station to buy another pack. think of the homeless and these poor children and families around the world that really 'need' help. they aren't just people stuck somewhere out there far, far away and you can't just unimagine that they are there. they are your brothers and sisters for God’s sake! We are all a big family in this world whether you want to face that fact or not. Think of how many people are dying every minute because you are so selfish you are going to go out and buy another pack of 'cancer sticks' to shorten your own life. isn't it bad enough that these people are starving and dying helplessly but you go ahead and slowly do the same thing to yourself and actually you are 'buying something' you are paying for a company to make and sell a product to shorten your own life? how ironic is that? you think you would want to 'pay' someone to help improve your life or to help improve someone else’s? instead it’s backward. you are actually paying some one else to help kill you. its actually assisted suicide in a sense. then if it’s against the law for Dr. Kevorkian to help others commit suicide, shouldn't it be against the law for cigarette companies to 'sell death and disease' and help others to also commit suicide? Hmm… makes you think doesn't it? All you non-smokers, you know where I am coming from with this! uuhh-huh! so why is it wrong for a man to assist someone to commit suicide but it is not wrong for cigarette companies to sell disease and death (slow suicide) to their 'customers' tell me that?! Its basically the same thing! When you really sit there and think about it. oh well I have rattled on and on long enough. if you have gotten this far you are lucky. maybe you learned something from all this gibber jabber I have done! Maybe you're not quite ready to hear it just yet, that’s OK.. everything happens for a reason and at just the right time, I am a firm believer in that. I just hope and pray that you too can quit one day before its too late. my dad always said he was going to quit one day, well sorry to say, he was right, but neither I or him knew it would be his last day with us. please people I am serious, I am not a meanie or a bad person. I'm just a concerned individual that cares for you. yes you heard me right, I care for you. Why, I don't even know you, I don't even know your name or anything about you for that matter but all you have to do is share the same planet with me. that’s enough for anyone to care for their brother or sister. please look at what you are doing to yourself and the others around you that really, really care! I know you're hooked, I know its hart to quit, I know, I've been there, done that! It’s not easy but it can be done! and you can do it too. weigh the pros against the cons of smoking or quitting smoking for yourself. think of your 'non-smoking' spouse that has to 'put up with' your nasty habit, think of your kids that have to breathe in that 'slow suicide' potion every time you light up in the car or your home. they are smoking right along with you. you are not only contributing to your own unhealthiness but of those who are the closest to you as well. you can do it, you can quit, it is possible and hundreds if not thousands are doing it every day! Join the millions who have already quit successfully and who have stayed 'clean'! If I can do it and harp and harp on it as I have to you because I really care for my fellow man, then you can do it too! Its not as easy as it looks or seems. nothing is really easy, anything worthwhile takes effort, motivation, perseverance, positive outlook and attitude. if you think you can't quit then you won’t ever quit but if you make it up in your mind to do it and 'psyche yourself out' to do it you will succeed! Think of it. is your health worth it? is your family and loved ones worth it? are your pets worth it? have you ever heard of a smoking dog or cat? or ferret, or pet rabbit? or how about the fish in your aquarium. you are not only affecting yourself but your pets suffer the effects of second hand smoke even! yes! I’ll bet you never thought of that! about now you're probably thinking, gee this guy really is onto something here! do you think if I didn't really care about all this smoking stuff that I would have wasted all this time typing all this stuff out? heck no. I would have been gone a long time ago. I wouldn't have thought twice about any of this but I have! And you are thinking. gee there is someone out there that I don't really know that cares enough to write all this stuff! Yes! that’s the whole point! because I care, that’s all. I care because you are there reading this now. you can turn your life around. you can do it, you can do it, you. The magic words in that statement are you and can. I will be praying for all of you that spent your precious valuable time getting to this point. if you think your time is precious. think of every minute added up from the time you started smoking, think of all this time you wasted, taking minutes, hours, even days or years off your life and harming others in the process. what would you do with all that wasted time and money today if you could have it back. But! You can’t have it back, its gone forever! But --you can do something about the time you have left here in this life! how important is that husband, or wife, your partner, and your children and grandchildren. . are their lives valuable enough for you to quit smoking now? how about yourself. don't you want to be around to see your kids achieve their life dreams, their careers and even have their own children, your grandchildren? don't you want to be around for them? Is $5. 50-5. 75 or $6,7 a pack worth burning to shorten your life for them? I know it sounds backward doesn't it? or wouldn’t you rather spend that extra $5-7 a pack on them. buy the kids or grandkids a new toy! buy your dog, your best furry friend a new toy! buy your good friend lunch at your favorite restaurant! save for so many worthwhile things you can do with that 'cigarette' money! get a jar or container or buy a cheap bank. Every time you would normally go to the store and 'buy a pack' take that money and put it in your 'bank'. check it after a month, or several months. (this is after you have quit). by the way I quit 'cold turkey'. in other words one day I just 'quit' just like that. no patches, no gum, no Zyban, no Chantix. none of that crap. I'm not saying any of that stuff is bad or anything, I'm just saying I didn't ever need any of it. some people can just quit just like that without thinking about it ever again and some people need a little extra help. that’s OK, whatever works best for you, but never quit quitting! Some times it takes 'getting into the habit' of breaking the habit. a lot of people don't quit and stay quit the first time around. some do, it all depends but don't give up! You can do it! I know you can!
Have faith and believe in yourself. you didn't become addicted over night so you won't be a smoke free person overnight either. you need to take it one day at a time! That’s all God gives us anyway, is one day at a time, because he knows more than we do, that that’s all we can handle at one time is one day! Maybe this is your day to say, I can't do this anymore. I can't make my kids sick or I really feel bad when my husband or my wife or my roommate or my friend or whoever sees me light up and they have to 'put up with my habit' maybe today is your day to say to yourself mainly, this is all about you by the way. others may experience the effects of your behavior but you ultimately have to deal with yourself everyday! You have to wake up to yourself and go to bed with yourself every night! If this is your day, Amen! I believe in miracles. there’s someone out there that wants you to live longer than you are taking time off of your life every time you light up. there’s someone out there, maybe a higher power that is telling you, you need to be around for your kids. Or you young people: think not that you are invincible and nothing can ever happen to you! We all never know when 'our time is up' here. Maybe you will be needed to help take care of your parent or parents one day when they and you become older, like me. I have had to care for my grandmother, and then my dad, rest his soul, and now my mother. she is in a nursing home now because I can no longer manage her care on my own anymore. but there will come a day when someone you know is going to need you. why are you shaving time off of your life now? why do you want to make your life shorter? Come on people, Life is a gift from God. what you do with it and how you live it is our gift back to him. why do you want to 'shorten' a blessing that God gave you to live to the fullest? smoking cigarettes isn't living your life to the fullest. it is a selfish, self-centered habit that only shortens life and causes disease, sickness, disability! The only 'benefit', if you can even call it that is that it makes you feel good, feel relaxed, feel energized etc. you know what? you can experience all those things by eating a well balanced diet everyday, and exercising, 'taking in nature'. go to a park and take a walk instead of lighting up that next cigarette. find other 'rewarding, uplifting' things to do to replace that 'cigarette break'! you can live without cigarettes. you did before you started, before you got 'hooked'. life couldn't have been all that bad before you started now c'mon.. the key to quitting and staying off them is to restructure your life and replace healthy new habits with those of your past smoking life or routines. think about your health and the health of your family and friends affected by your smoking. does it help them or hurt them. I know you know deep in your heart the real answers to that question! You know it and I know it. don't just say, well I smoke because I want to.. that isn't being considerate of others now, is it. and if the feelings and lives of those around you matter enough to you, you will ask yourself that question over and over again until you find the true honest loving answer. I have to go now, but I will be praying for all of you that stuck with me and made it to this point. I congratulate you!. that shows that this whole quitting bit must really mean something to you, and if you think that I just sat here with nothing to do and just made all this stuff up today you're wrong. there is a 'higher power' with us today that inspired me to write all this stuff for you to read.. because there is a higher calling in your life that you need to fulfill and you can't do it by 'puffing your life away' into the air. every moment you consider quitting or even thinking about it is worth the try. you owe it to yourself most of all, you owe it to your family and friends, your wife, your husband, your partner, your room mate whoever, you owe it to yourself to consider it at least -- and i know you can do it! If i can do it anyone can! I need to go now. I may never see you or meet you or anything like that but at least we made a connection through this comment section of this website and hopefully you learned something. something about the value of life and the lives of others around you that you care about and that care so, so much about you! Take care, God bless and my prayers are with you all, because I do really care! Please, put down that cigarette and that lighter and think. really think before you light up that next one. it's not all about you anymore, it's about you and everyone around you.